फिर भी अवैध संबंध?

फिर भी अवैध संबंध?

रात के 2:30 बजे दुर्ग रेलवे स्टेशन के प्लेटफार्म नंबर 2-3 पर यात्रियों की भारी भीड़ जमा थी। सभी यात्री बेसब्री से ट्रेन के आने का इंतजार कर रहे थे।

बारिश का मौसम था, बादल गरज रहे थे, लेकिन बारिश नहीं हो रही थी। ठंडी-ठंडी हवाएं चल रही थीं, जिससे मौसम और ज्यादा ठंडा हो गया था। लोग सर्दी से कांप रहे थे।

इसी दौरान, कविता और नीरज ठंड से सिहरते हुए अपने हाथों में सूटकेस और अन्य सामान लिए स्टेशन के ब्रिज से नीचे उतर रहे थे। वे आपस में बातें करते हुए प्लेटफार्म की ओर बढ़ रहे थे।

कविता ने साड़ी के पल्लू से अपना मुंह ढक रखा था, जबकि नीरज ने रूमाल से।

कविता फुसफुसाते हुए नीरज से कहती है "नीरज ! लोगों की तरफ ज्यादा मत देखो, तुम्हारी पर्सनालिटी को देख कर भी पहचान सकते है, इसलिए सर नीचे करके चलते रहो"

नीरज सिर हिलाते हुए कहता है "हूं , मुझे मालूम है"

प्लेटफार्म नंबर 3 में 'पूरी से गांधीधाम (गुजरात)' की ओर जाने वाली सूपर फास्ट ट्रेन आधे घंटे में आने वाली थी ।

दोनों आगे बढ़ते हुए, जनरल बोगी रूकने वाली स्थान पर पहुंच जाते हैं और सामान नीचे रख कर इंतजार करने लगते हैं ।

यहां, बोगी में चढ़ने वाले यात्रियों की काफी भीड़ थी । कुछ यात्री तो बिल्कुल प्लेटफार्म के बॉर्डर पर खड़े थे ।

कविता कहती है : नीरज, इतने भीड़ में हम बोगी में चढ़ पाएंगे?"

नीरज : "भीड़ तो है, पर किसी भी तरह हमें चढ़ना होगा, और कोई रास्ता नहीं है"

कविता सुनकर चुप हो जाती है और थोड़ी देर बाद उदास मन से कहती है "नीरज ! आखिर मैने तुम्हें पाने के लिए अपना घर द्वार और बच्चो को छोड़ कर आ ही गई .... बस रूक रूक कर राहुल की याद आ रही है"

नीरज कहता है "हां, आएगी छोटा है ना .... देखो कविता ! अभी भी मौका है, सोच लो, अभी भी कुछ नहीं बिगड़ा है .... घर में सब सो रहे होंगे, ऑटो में बैठा दूंगा, वापस जाकर, कोई भी बहाना बना देना"

कविता ने थोड़ा रुक कर रूंधे गले से जवाब दिया...... "नहीं नीरज, वापस जाने वाली कोई बात नहीं है, मैंने सब सोच कर ही तुम्हारे साथ जाने का फैसला किया है ...... अब मेरी जिंदगी के साथ जो भी होगा वह मुझे मंजूर है"

"मेरे घर वाले जो भी सोचें, सोचने दे, समाज जो भी कहें, कहने दें........ बच्चों को अभी भूल नहीं पा रही हूं , पर ........ धीरे धीरे उन्हें भूलने की कोशिश करुंगी"

कविता ने आगे कहा ..... " मैंने तुम्हारे प्यार के भरोसे इतना बड़ा निर्णय लिया है ....... बच्चे बड़े होकर मेरे बारे में क्या सोचेंगे ..... इसकी मुझे अब कोई परवाह नहीं है"

"कल को समाज यही कहेगा ना कि एक मां अपने स्वार्थ के लिए अपने तीन बच्चों को छोड़ कर एक पराए मर्द के साथ भाग गई .... बोलने दो वो भी मुझे मंजूर है"

"बस तुम मेरा साथ देते रहना .... मैं आगे की जिंदगी को आराम से गुजार लुंगी ...... और हर तकलीफ को सह लुंगी ।

"जब मेरे लिए तुमने अपने घर माता पिता और पत्नी और बच्चों को छोड़ दिया है ..... तो मैंने तो केवल बच्चों को ही छोड़ा है । अशोक तो मुझसे अब नफरत करेगा"

(इसी समय एक अजनबी इन दोनों के करीब आता है, दोनों कुछ क्षण के लिए झेंप जाते हैं)

यात्री, नीरज की ओर देख कर पूछता है.....भाई साहब 'अहमदाबाद' जाने वाली ट्रेन इसी प्लेटफार्म में आएगी ना ?"

"हां, इसी में आएगी" .... नीरज जवाब देता है (अजनबी आगे बढ़ जाता है)

नीरज, कविता की आंखों में झांकते हुए कहता है - "कविता तुम्हें मालूम है कि मैं तुमसे कितना प्यार करता हूं ........ क्या अभी भी मेरे प्यार पर कोई शक़ है? मैंने भी अपने प्यारे दो बच्चों को पीछे छोड़ा है"

कविता ......."नहीं, नहीं नीरज ऐसी कोई बात नहीं है, तुम पर शक़ की कोई गुंजाइश नही है ...... यदि शक़ या संदेह होता तो ...... मैं तुम्हारे साथ जिंदगी बिताने का फैसला नहीं करती ....... इतना बड़ा निर्णय नही लेती"

तभी दूर से ट्रेन आने की आवाज आती है । नीरज और कविता एक दूसरे की तरफ देखते हैं, जैसे कह रहे हो, चलो अब चलना है .... दोनों की आंखों में सहमति का भाव दिखाई देता है ..... दोनो अपना अपना सामान उठा कर तैयार हो जाते हैं ।

ट्रेन, प्लेटफार्म में धीमी गति से गुजरते हुए रुकने लगती है। जनरल बोगी ठीक उनके सामने आ कर रुकती है, जो यात्री प्लेटफार्म के जस्ट किनारे खड़े थे, वे पहले बोगी में एक दूसरे को धकेलते हुए घुस जाते हैं ।

कुछ लोग दूसरी तरफ की गेट तरफ भागते हैं, भीड़ जरा सा छंटने के बाद, जैसे तैसे दोनों ट्रेन में चढ़ जाते हैं ।

भीड़ काफी थी, सीट पूरी भरी हुई थी, लोग बीच में भी खड़े होकर यात्रा कर रहे थे, ट्रेन के भीतर खड़े होने के अलावा और कोई option नहीं था, अंदर की ओर जाना बेकार था, वे दरवाजे और बाथरूम के बीच खड़े रहना सही समझा ... 5 मिनट बाद ट्रेन चलने लगती है ।

कविता शांत खड़ी रहती है, नीरज इशारा करते हुए कहता है "क्या हुआ?"

कविता कहती है "बस यूं ही, अपनी जिंदगी के बारे में सोच रही थी... (थोड़ा रुक कर) नीरज! जानते हो, जब मेरी शादी अशोक से हुई थी, तब मेरी उम्र मात्र 17 साल थी। अशोक को तो तुम जानते ही हो—सीधा-सादा और सच्चा आदमी। जब वह मुझे देखने आया था, तो पहली ही नजर में पसंद कर लिया था। वह मुझे खूब प्यार करता था... और आज, मैं उसे छोड़ रही हूं।

नीरज हंसते हुए कहता है : "छोड़ रही हूं क्या? छोड़ दिया"

कविता भी हंसती है : "हां, छोड़ दिया"

कविता और नीरज का परिवार छत्तीसगढ़ के दुर्ग जिले में रामनगर गांव में रहता था । कविता का पति अशोक एक पब्लिक सेक्टर कंपनी के कैंटीन में कुक का काम करता था , सेलरी अच्छी थी, खुशहाल जिंदगी थी ।

तभी, एक चाय वाला "चाय चाय" करता हुआ बोगी मे आता है । नीरज, कविता को चाय पीने का इशारा करता है, सुबह के साढ़े चार बजने वाले थे । कविता "हां" में सिर हिलाती है, नीरज दो चाय ले लेता है, दोनो पीने लगते हैं ।

कविता की शादी को 14 साल बीत चुके थे। इस दौरान उसके तीन बच्चे हुए—पहला बेटा शेखर (जो अब 13 साल का है), दूसरी बेटी पायल (अब 9 साल की) और तीसरा बेटा राहुल (अब ढाई साल का)।

ट्रेन में सफर के दौरान कविता के मन में विचार उमड़ रहे थे—"मेरे जाने के बाद अशोक और बच्चे क्या कर रहे होंगे?"

आज, वह अपने स्वार्थ के लिए अपना घर-द्वार और तीनों बच्चों को छोड़कर हमेशा के लिए नीरज के साथ एक नई जिंदगी के सपने संजोए यात्रा कर रही थी।

और उधर, घर में...

क्या आप कल्पना कर सकते हैं? एक पत्नी और बच्चों की माँ, जो रात के अंधेरे में किसी दूसरे मर्द के साथ भाग जाए—उसके पति और बच्चों पर क्या बीत रही होगी?

अनाथालय से ऑस्ट्रेलिया टीम के कैप्टन तक की यात्रा!

अनाथालय से ऑस्ट्रेलिया टीम के कैप्टन तक की यात्रा!

 "जन्म देने के बाद लड़की को फेंकने वाले माता-पिता अंदर ही अंदर रो रहे होंगे क्योंकि वे अपनी पैदा हुई बेटी से भी नहीं मिल सकते"

 महाराष्ट्र के पुणे शहर में एक अनाथालय है, जिसे 'श्रीवास्तव अनाथालय' कहा जाता है।  13 अगस्त 1979 को शहर के एक अनजान कोने में एक लड़की का जन्म हुआ, माता-पिता को नहीं पता था कि यह एक मजबूरी है, कि उन्होंने सुबह-सुबह इस अनाथालय के पालने में अपने जिगर का एक टुकड़ा फेंक दिया, प्रबंधक अनाथालय की प्यारी सी बच्ची का नाम 'लैला' रखा गया।

 उन दिनों हरेन और सू नाम का एक अमेरिकी जोड़ा भारत घूमने आया था।  उनके परिवार में पहले से ही एक लड़की थी, भारत आने का उनका मकसद एक लड़के को गोद लेना था।  वे एक सुन्दर लड़के की तलाश में इस आश्रम में आए।  उन्हें एक लड़का नहीं मिला, लेकिन सू की नज़र लैला पर पड़ी और लड़की की चमकीली भूरी आँखों और मासूम चेहरे को देखकर उसे उससे प्यार हो गया।

 कानूनी कार्रवाई करने के बाद, लड़की को गोद ले लिया गया, सू ने अपना नाम लैला से बदलकर 'लिज' कर लिया, वे वापस अमेरिका चले गए, लेकिन कुछ वर्षों के बाद वे सिडनी में स्थायी रूप से बस गए।

 पिता ने बेटी को क्रिकेट खेलना सिखाया, घर के पार्क से शुरू होकर गली के लड़के के साथ खेलने तक का यह सफर चला।  क्रिकेट के प्रति उनका जुनून अपार था, लेकिन उन्होंने अपनी पढ़ाई भी पूरी की।  उसे एक अच्छा मौकि मिला, उसने अपनी पढ़ाई पूरी की और आगे बढ़ गई।  पहले वो बोलती थीं, फिर उनका बल्ला बोलने लगा और फिर उनके रिकॉर्ड बात करने लगे.

 1997- न्यू-साउथ वेल्स द्वारा पहला मैच

 2001- ऑस्ट्रेलिया का पहला ODI

 2003- ऑस्ट्रेलिया द्वारा पहला टेस्ट

 2005- ऑस्ट्रेलिया द्वारा पहला टी20

 आठ टेस्ट मैच, 416 रन, 23 विकेट

 125 वनडे, 2728 रन, 146 विकेट

 54 टी-20, 769 रन, 60 विकेट

 वनडे में 1000 रन और 100 विकेट लेने वाली पहली महिला क्रिकेटर

जब आईसीसी की रैंकिंग प्रणाली शुरू हुई तो वह दुनिया के नंबर एक ऑलराउंडर थे।

 ऑस्ट्रेलियाई कप्तान!  बहुत खूब!

 ODI और T-20 - चार विश्व कप में भाग लिया।

 2013 में उनकी टीम ने क्रिकेट विश्व कप जीता, उसके अगले दिन इस खिलाड़ी ने अंतरराष्ट्रीय क्रिकेट को अलविदा कह दिया।

  इंटरनेशनल क्रिकेट काउंसिल (ICC) ने लीजा स्टालगर को अपने हॉल ऑफ फेम में शामिल किया है।

 इसलिए कहा जाता है कि हर इंसान अपनी किस्मत लेकर आता है, माता-पिता ने लड़की को एक अनाथालय में छोड़ दिया, लेकिन नियति उसे पहले अमेरिका ले गई और फिर उसे ऑस्ट्रेलियाई क्रिकेट टीम का कप्तान बना दिया और उसे दुनिया के महान क्रिकेटरों में से एक बना दिया। 

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MEN AND SEX. Medically, men lose 12% of their blood sugar during every round of sex, they also lose 10% of their protein level and also lose 10% of their calorie level. Worse still is, you also lose 15% of your natural energy.

 MEN AND SEX.

Medically, men lose 12% of their blood sugar during every round of sex, they also lose 10% of their protein level and also lose 10% of their calorie level. Worse still is, you also lose 15% of your natural energy.

What do ladies lose?

Only 5% of their water level.......

So If you hear FASTER or HARDER or GIVE IT TO ME, my brother just runaway.

However, for every round of sex you also loose MONEY, either through POSTPAID or PREPAID.

I also recall that a Pharmacist friend of mine who told me some years ago that with every round of good sex A man looses food values of nutrients equivalent to his monthly nutrient build up from daily balanced diet of 30 days.

WHAT A SACRIFICE?

And yet we act like they are doing us a favour... It is time men start demanding for maintenance fees from ladies, please.

MEN LIFE MATTERS

Men I hope am getting it?

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Interviewer : Tell me about yourself.

Candidate: I ...am Rameshwar Kulkarni. I did my Tele Communication engineering from BabanRao Dhole-Patil Inst it ute of Technology.

Interviewer : BabanRao Dhole-Patil Inst it ute of Technology? I had never heard of this college before!

Candidate : Great! Even I had not heard of it before getting an admission into it ..
What happened is – due to cricket world cup I scored badly! in 12th.I was getting a paid seat in a good college. But my father said (I prefer to call him ‘baap’) – “I can not invest so much of money”.(The baap actually said – “I will never waste so much of money on you”). So I had to join this college. Frankly speaking this name – BabanRao Dhole-Patil, can at the most be related to a Shetakari Mahavidyalaya

Interviewer: ok, ok. It seems you have taken 6 years to complete your engineering.

Candidate : Actually I tried my best to finish it in 4 years. But you know, these cricket matches and football world cup, and tennis tournaments. It is difficult to concentrate. So I flunked in 2nd and 3rd year. So in all I took 4 + 2 = 7 years.

Interviewer: But 4+2 is 6.

Candidate: Oh, is it ? You know I always had KT in maths. But I will try to keep this in mind. 4+2 is 6, good, thanks. These cricket matches really affect exams a lot.. I think they should ban it .

Interviewer : Good to know that you want cricket matches to be banned.

Candidate : No, no… I am talking about Exams!!

Interviewer: Ok, What is your biggest achievement in life?
Candidate : Obviously, completing my Engineering. My mom never thought I would complete it . In fact, when I flunked in 3rd year, she was looking for a job for me in BEST (Bus
corporation in Maharashtra ) through some relative.

Interviewer : Do you have any plans of higher study?
Candidate: he he he.. Are you kidding? Completing ‘lower’ education it self was so much of pain!!

Interviewer : Let’s talk about technical stuff. On which platforms have you worked?

Candidate : Well, I work at SEEPZ, so you can say Andheri is my current platforms. Earlier I was at Vashi center. So Vashi was my platform then. As you can see I have experience of different platforms! (Vashi and Andheri are the places in Mumbai)

Interviewer : And which languages have you used?

Candidate : Marathi, Hindi, English. By the way, I can keep quiet in German, French, Russian and many other languages.

Interviewer: Why VC is better than VB?

Candidate : It is a common sense – C comes after B. So VC is a higher version than VB. I heard very soon they are coming up w it h a new language VD!

Interviewer: Do you know anything about Assembly Language?

Candidate: Well, I have not heard of it . But I guess, this is the language our ministers and MPs use in assembly.

Interviewer : What is your general project experience?

Candidate : My general experience about projects is – most of the times they are in pipeline!

Interviewer: Can you tell me about your current job?

Candidate: Sure, Currently I am working for Bata Info Tech ltd. Since joining BIL, I am on Bench. Before joining BIL, I used to think that Bench was another software like Windows.

Interviewer : Do you have any project management experience?

Candidate: No, but I guess it shouldn’t be difficult. I know Word and Excel. I can talk a lot. I know how to dial for International phone call and use speaker facility. And very important – I know few words like – ‘Showstoppers ‘ , ‘hot fixes’, ‘SEI-CMM’, ‘quality’, ‘version control’, ‘deadlines’ , ‘Customer Satisfaction’ etc. Also I can blame others for my mistakes!

Interviewer: What are your expectations from our company?

Candidate : Not much.
1. I should at least get 40,000 in hand..
2. I would like to work on a live EJB project. But it should not have deadlines. I personally feel that pressure affects natural talent.
3. I believe in flexi-timings.
4. Dress Code is against basic freedom, so I would like to wear t-shirt and jeans.
5. We must have sat-sun off. I will suggest Wednesday off also, so as to avoid breakdown due to overwork.
6. I would like to go abroad 3 times a year on short term preferably 1-2 months) assignments. Personally I prefer US, Australia and Europe. But considering the fact that there are Olympics coming up in China in the current year, I don’t mind going there in that period. As you can see I am modest and don’t have many expectations. So can I assume my selection?

Interviewer : he he he ha ha ha. Thanks for your interest in our
organization. In fact I was never entertained so much before. Welcome to SYS INFO.

The fellow was appointed in a newly created section ‘Stress Management’ in the HRD of sys info.

So Excellence is not the only thing Needed. Its the Unique Quality of a Person which can let anyone to Success. Work on Your own Field rather then following somebody else's Path

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How To Get Filipino Girls?

For Westerners, you will have a different gameplay when pursuing a Filipina woman. Filipinas are very conservative especially when it comes to dating and courting. Most of the time, they play coy and hard to get. These women are constantly being reminded to practice modesty and restraint. They are not the type of girls who will easily go with your in your apartment. In fact, it might take you weeks to months to convince her to spend alone time with you.

In most cases, if your pursue a Filipina women, she will likely take her best friend on your first date. It’s her way of securing herself. She thinks that by tagging someone along with her, she is safer. So, how can you win Filipina girls? Check out the list below:

Be friendly -Filipinas are naturally shy but they are friendly and very approachable. Give one a smile and start a conversation. They are very welcoming and trusting. You will be surprised at how easy it is to make friends with them.

Give presents – Anyone love gifts. Presents can soften anyone’s heart and you can use this to ask forgiveness or pursue someone. When courting a Filipina woman giving her flowers, chocolates and cards will be a good and efficient way in letting her know of your interest to her. You can bring flowers on your first date or maybe send them ahead. This gesture will be viewed favorably.

Serenade her – In the Philippines, there is this gesture called “harana.” This is the traditional courtship in the Philippines were a man is accompanied by his close friends serenade the woman underneath her window at night. Harana is successful when the woman invites the guy and his company inside for a refreshment or when the lady sing along with the man.

Don’t be too touchy – Women from the Philippines are very conservative. While they are open to going out with you with a chaperone, they are not comfortable with being touchy, especially during courting even in the early stages of relationship. Filipina women are very modest especially when it comes to public display of affection (PDA). By being too touchy she might misinterpret it as sexual advances and keep her distance from you. However, you will know and feel it if she is also into you.

Never insult her family and religion – Filipinos are very close to their families and they are very religious. Majority of them are Catholics and most are devoted to their religion. It is a big No-No to speak ill of their religion and family. These two factors are very important for them.

Be patient – You need to be patient when you pursue a woman from the Philippines because as mentioned they are not easy to get. They can play hard to get and it will take time before you will hear her sweet yes. These girls are looking for a spouse and not a fling. They want a lifetime partner and not a one night fun.

Dating a Filipina woman would be a different experience for men from the West because these girls are very reserved and modest. However, they are also the type who makes a good spouse and reliable partner. These women are a gem. They will make every home a perfect place to stay and every family a good training ground for responsible citizens.

Thank you for reading the article. Have you met and date Filipina women before? How was your experience? Share us your stories in our comment section. If you have questions or reactions, don’t hesitate to ask.

Also read....

• Are Filipina Women Good For Dating And Marrying?
• What are Filipino women like?
• Filipino Women Characteristics?
• Are Filipino Women Good For Marriage?
• Where to Meet Single Filipino Women?

Where to Meet Single Filipino Women?

Most men travel across the globe to the Philippines to meet Filipina girls. If you are one of them and you are wondering where to go to meet your future wife, then this section will help you find your potential woman. The best place to find a Filipino girl for dating or marriage is through friends and families. But I guessing you don’t live here, the second place place is Filipino dating sites. 

Disco Bars and Clubs

Filipinas love to dance, sing and party. In fact, if you go around the Philippines, you can find bars and nightclubs in small and big cities. It is their nature to unwind, relax and have fun from time to time. However, you should still be careful because there are girls who might just take advantage of you financially. In short, there are also hookers.

As I mentioned Filipina girls are hardworking but some might want their easy way up. While some Filipina girls go to bars and clubs, most conservative ones don’t. This does not also mean that those who go to bars are bad girls. You just need to exercise caution wherever you meet the woman be it in a small town or in a big city.

Usually, hookers are on flock on expensive disco bars like High Society in Angeles City Pampanga or J-Ave on Cebu City. These girls who want to just enjoy the night knew that there is an abundant of foreigner customers in these places and you might end up paying for them. However, there are also non-pros in these areas, you just have to be very careful.

Public Places

Perhaps, the easiest way to meet a Filipina woman is by simply going out. They are almost anywhere. You can go in the market, mall, park or restaurants. Most of them are employed in these places or nearby and by exposing yourself in these areas, you are also giving yourself an opportunity to communicate with them.

Striking a conversation when they are on their job would be difficult and perhaps challenging than meeting them in a club or bar where they could be in the mood to meeting new friends. However, you can start a conversation about the products they sell or the service they offer. You can always start a friendly conversation. After all, the first step is making friends with a potential woman that you will be spending the rest of your life with.

Online Sites

If you don’t have the energy and money to fly right away to the Philippines to search for the Filipina girl that you want to marry, then you can start by looking online. This method also works for men who does not want to go out and approach a girl on public places or go to the mall and randomly talk with girls. A number of Filipina women are available on dating sites and they are eager to find the man they can grow old with.

A number of men found their Filipina wife in these sites. In fact, if you visit these sites you will find a number of testimonials full of gratitude on how these dating sites open a channel for them to meet their forever. If you are also aiming to marry a Pinay.

Thank you for reading the article. Have you met and date Filipina women before? How was your experience? Share us your stories in our comment section. If you have questions or reactions, don’t hesitate to ask.

Also read....

• Are Filipina Women Good For Dating And Marrying?
• What are Filipino women like?
• Filipino Women Characteristics?
• Are Filipino Women Good For Marriage?
• How To Get Filipino Girls?

Are Filipino Women Good For Marriage?

A number of foreigners visit the Philippines to find a Filipina wife. In fact, many white and black men are happily living in the country with their Filipina better half and children. In other cases, Filipino girls join their foreign husband in his country. So, what’s with Filipina women that some men travel to the Philippines to meet them? Do Filipino women make good wives? The answer: Yes.

Here are some reasons why a number of men around the world go to the Philippines to find a wife. Check it out and you will surely be amazed.

Filipina Women Are Perfect for Household

As I mentioned, Filipino women are more than beauty. They have the skills and the character that will surely make every house a home. They can keep the household clean and in order, cook meals for the family and attend her husband and children’s need all at once. A number of Filipina girls do this while maintaining their careers to earn a living.

Filipina Girls Are Family Oriented

Filipinos have close-knit families. Children even in their 20s still live with their parents. They do so not because they remain dependents to their parents, in most cases, these young individuals work and provide for their family. In fact, some still extend help to their parents and siblings even after marriage.

Filipinos also tend to live with their relatives and extended family nearby or in a compound. This is convenient for everyone as they can ask the relatives to look after their children, in case, there are emergencies. Due to this arrangement, Filipina women are very family-oriented.

Filipino Women Have a Strong Character

If the husband is away, he can trust her to take over the household without any problem. She is loyal, faithful, trustworthy, kind and generous. Filipina girls are slim and petite but most of them, especially in the rural are very strong. They are exposed to all types of household chores including fetching water, doing the laundry and cooking at a young age. These experiences make them responsible, dependable and resilient. A girl from the Philippines is an all-around woman. She thinks of the welfare of the family first, than herself and will always go the extra miles for her love ones.

Filipina Girls Value Motherhood

For men who wish to have a big family, having kids with a Filipino woman in most cases will not be an issue. While some women shun motherhood for their figure, Filipino women don’t. I don’t speak for all but I don’t know anyone personally who doesn’t want to get pregnant for fear of losing her sexy figure. All of them love children and want to grow their family.

This does not mean either that these women do not care about their figure, they just prioritize family. If their husbands want children they are not selfish to say not because they are afraid to get fat. They are also caring mom. Most want to breast feed their children, cook for the family and attend their needs despite the demands from work or even if they have a maidservant.

Filipina Girls Looks Beyond One’s Physical Features

A Filipina woman doesn’t care about your looks or age. In fact, if you are in your late 30s and you are in a Western country, you can hardly find a young woman for your wife. However, you can expect a change in the Philippines. You can find a number of women in the country marrying someone over a decade older than her. Some men are already bald with big tummy but are still able to find a young and lovely wife in the Philippines. So why is this so?

Filipina women want security. They need a man who can provide for the family so they are not into the physical features of a man. This does not also mean that she is a gold digger and will only be using her foreign husband to live a convenient life. Filipinas are not the type who just leaves everything to their husbands. Filipina girls are wise and they know how to make money easily. So, typically, they are one of best spouses to find. As long as you love her and you can help her raise the family, your relationship will work.

Filipina Girls Are Good at Handling Money

One of the best traits of a Filipina woman is her skills in handling money. You will be surprised at how good she is when it comes to financing whether she has a degree or not. You can give her a hundred bucks and be surprised at how many things she can buy with the amount. They are good in finding a good bargain. Their eyes are always set on the cheap but quality items. When doing their grocery they are very patient to compare prices and scour in the sections with discounted tags and freebies.

So, do Filipino women make good wives? Yes, they do and if you ask those who have a Filipina wife they will surely convince you to get one.

For men who want a strong partner, a Filipina woman is a smart choice. But you don’t choose Filipina women because it is smart to do so. When you know one, you will understand that they are indeed, wife material.

Thank you for reading the article. Have you met and date Filipina women before? How was your experience? Share us your stories in our comment section. If you have questions or reactions, don’t hesitate to ask.

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• Are Filipina Women Good For Dating And Marrying?
• What are Filipino women like?
• Filipino Women Characteristics?
• Where to Meet Single Filipino Women?
• How To Get Filipino Girls?

Filipino Women Characteristics?

Lets talk about their outer characteristics first. There are a number of gorgeous Filipina girls all over the world. In fact, the country has won a number of titles in major beauty pageants. Philippines has one Miss World crown, three Miss Universe crowns, six Miss International crowns and three Miss Earth crowns. Their beauty stands out from the rest but they more than just a pretty face. Here are some of their characteristics that will make one easily fall in love with them.

They have a sunny disposition. Filipino women are very fun to be with. They will entertain you with their stories, happy chatter and charm.

They are kind and submissive. Filipina women are strong but they are brought up to be submissive to their husband. As a partner, they are patient, kind, understanding, generous, caring and supportive. When in a fight with their spouse, they are usually quiet.

They are smart and educated. Girls from the Philippines speak English well. They are also career-driven. A number of Filipina women excel in engineering, computer, architecture and education to name a few.

They are faithful and loyal. If you date Filipino girls you will see how they value relationships. A Filipino woman is very loyal and faithful to her man. She will stick to his man, no matter what. She is not the type to give up a relationship so easily.

Thank you for reading the article. Have you met and date Filipina women before? How was your experience? Share us your stories in our comment section. If you have questions or reactions, don’t hesitate to ask.

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• Are Filipino Women Good For Marriage?
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What are Filipino women like?

Filipinos are a product of mixed culture and this reflects in their physical features and attitudes. According to Philippines Plus, 5,000 years ago, Indonesians arrived in the Philippines. One group was tall with light skin, large foreheads, high noses and thin lips. The second group of Indonesians were shorter, darker and has larger noses, and thick lips. After several thousand years, the Malays came to the Philippines. Malays have a medium height, brown skin, dark eyes, flat noses and straight black hair.

A number of Filipinos feel insecure with their flat noses, which others find to be just fine. However, some Filipinos also look Spanish because the country has been colonized by Spaniards for 333 years. Overall, Filipina women come in a variety of skin color, height, and built. However, most foreigners are drawn to dating Filipino girls who are slim, petite and attractive.

Yes, Filipina girls have dark hair, dark eyes, and slender figures. They are also naturally tanned which is a change of pace, especially for Westerners and Americans. Asian women, in particular, Filipinos are beautiful inside and out. They have a rich culture, delicious food, and a knit family.

Aside from their looks , women from the Philippines are very conservative, especially when it comes to sexual values. Filipina women only express their sexuality with someone when they are already in a committed relationship. In general, they are very faithful when in a relationship and are not promiscuous.

Thank you for reading the article. Have you met and date Filipina women before? How was your experience? Share us your stories in our comment section. If you have questions or reactions, don’t hesitate to ask.

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• Are Filipino Women Good For Marriage?
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Are Filipina Women Good For Dating And Marrying? WARNING MUST READ

Are you a foreigner looking to dating a Filipino girl or marrying one? If yes, you have to read this, there are information here that will save you lots of headache in the future.

The best place to look for Filipina girls to date or marriage is dating sites. This is because they’re looking for you as well.

Filipino women and girls are popular for their hospitality and close family ties. They are also very caring and responsible. A number of them work overseas as caregivers, nurses, doctors, teachers or helpers. Serving their families and the people around them is a second nature to them, which make Filipino women an ideal wife. That is if you you take my instructions on how to avoid the bad ones.

In fact, a number of Westerners fly to the Philippines to find their Filipina wife. The exotic beauty of the women from the Pearl of the Orient Seas paired with their strong character make these women so alluring and irresistible. If you are reading this, perhaps you are also considering in getting a Filipina as a wife. If you are undecided whether you pursue your plan or not, this article will help you understand why you should.

Dating a Filipina woman would be a different experience for men from the West because these girls are very reserved and modest. However, they are also the type who makes a good spouse and reliable partner. These women are a gem. They will make every home a perfect place to stay and every family a good training ground for responsible citizens.

Thank you for reading the article. Have you met and date Filipina women before? How was your experience? Share us your stories in our comment section. If you have questions or reactions, don’t hesitate to ask.

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• What are Filipino women like?
• Filipino Women Characteristics?
• Are Filipino Women Good For Marriage?
• Where to Meet Single Filipino Women?
• How To Get Filipino Girls?

What kind of girls do guys fall for ?

When I turned 17, everyone around me was making a girlfriend. Studies took the back seat. Instead of Physics, people discussed about girls.
" Which girl do you like" someone among us would ask.
"I like X. She is hot."
Hotness became the new cool. The hotter the girl, the more number of boys wanting her as a girlfriend. Why? I think nobody understood then. At least I didn't. It was done because everyone was doing it.

During fourth semester of my engineering, a girl proposed me. She was everything a boy of 20 would have wanted for. Smart and educated. More than everything else she loved me like crazy. But this time, the girl was not pretty. However, it didn't matter. People change with time. I realized by then that physical beauty is not going to last. Love would. So I'm lucky to have someone who loves me more than anything else.

She left one day. Probably she found someone whose love for her was far greater than her love for me. I'm not sure. She never told me.

I introspected. Love being aside, we were quite opposite. I like reading,she hated it. She loved parties what I despise till now. She was free as a bird, I caged myself in few things. She was cool, I wasn't. Whatever. It was not meant to happen. It didn't happen.

Few days ago, I started messaging a girl. I immediately started liking her. She loved writing.She was witty. I liked her for that only to realize she is already committed. Bad. I can't flirt with her anymore.

One of my friends asked me what I would look for in a girl. What is my expectation?

"Nothing" I said. She was surprised.

I seriously don't know what would make me fall for a girl at 25. What I know is this-hotness is not 
the primary criterion and I should have a similar liking which she has so that we can enjoy each other's presence.
I would appreciate if someone can understand my silence. That's it.

I m yours..urs mine 3 – Arohi

A/salam dosto

mene apne agle part me kaha ki me mama ki shadi me gai or unki mum muze sath me hi rakhte the or unhone photo wale se mere bohot photo liye..Ahemad ke sath mene baat tk nai ki q ki sub ko pata chal jata toa Ahemad ne phn kiya ki stage pe ao me jaldi se aa gai waha pe jyada koi nahi the Ahemad ke bare bhai unki mashi the sub khane gaye the mama or mami bethe the toa muze photo ke liye bulaya Ahemad ke ek dost the jo humari sari baat jante the unhone chupke se mera shadi me pura video kiya tha muze tb pta chala phir mama ne kaha humare dono bachhe k sath photo reh gai toa humari tb bohot sari photo li wo bi personal camera me taki kisiko pata na chale dusre din reception me unki mum ne Ahemad ko hi muze lene k liye bheja jun me ghar me gai akeli toa waha unki mum or mashi the mama ne kaha hum Ahemad ki shadi Arohise karwa de toa..me dar gai thi ki kya hoga tb unki mum ne kaha ki ager Arohi muslim ho jaye to hum shadi karwa de..me khush ho gai..humara pyar or bi jyada ho gaya milte the per bohot kam Ahemad or me whatsapp pe baat karte or Druvi

ki shadi hone k bawjud bhi ladkr se baat karti thi me jisse bhi baat karti toa Ahemad ko pata hai ki mere frnd kun hai or wo sub ko mil bhi chuke hai merw frnd unke frnds bn gaye druvi ne mere khilaf bohot kuch kaha ki ye hindu hai chhor de esa bohot per kuchh nai hua toa uska ek ladke se afair tha shadi k baad bhi toa usne muze kaha ki tum use mana karna ki druvi nai rakhna chahti muze bohot gussa aya ki usne mere sath jo bhi kiya mene sub sahan karke use humesha sath diya taki mere liye frnds subse jyada tha chahe ghar wale khilaf ho..muze gussa toa aya per meri dost thi muze help karni thi toa me use samjaya per Dhruvi ne kasam di ki ye bat Ahemad ko nahi batawu me chhoti si baat ho wo bhi Ahemad ko batati thi per ye bat nai batai per bohot galt tha ye..per nai bataya mene Dhruvi k bf ko samjaya tb dhruvi ne Ahemad ko ye kaha ki me kisi ladke se bat karti hun or unko nahi bataya Ahemad bohot gussa huye or bohot ladai ki or me itni bimar ho gai ki addmit hona para waha mum ne Ahemad ke phn aya toa bataya ki me bimar hun to wo muze milne aye per me unko nahi bata pai ki kya hua tha q ki frnds k liye kiya tha mere liye nai humare bich fasla badhta raha mama..mami ne Ahemad ko bohot samjaya per wo man nai rahe the q ki dhruvi use or bat bana k kaheti me thik hoke ghar to a gai per me thore dino me bimar ho jati thi Ahemad ko milne bulaya or unhone waha se mere phn se unka number liya jisse dhruvi ka shadi k bad afair tha phir sub pata chala ki mera kuch nai tha me druvi k liye kiya phir wo mere hostel tha us city me muze milne aye hum ek river k pas gaye waha wo bohot roye or kaha ki mene bohot taklif di tuje bohor roye mene unko hug kiya or chup karwaya tb unhone paheli bar lips kiss kiya or kaha ki age se me teri aankh me kabhi aansu nahi ane dunga or us time mera exam tha toa mera exam me 2nd cls aya per ghar me sub jante the ki bimar thi isliye exam khurab gai..


Dosto aaj me or Mere Ahmad sath hai or pahele se jyada pyar hai koi galtfami nai han wo unki cls me koi ladki hai jo unki frnd thi use bat karte hai per wo sub humare bare m bhi jante hai wo fb use karte hai or 2 foreigh ki ladki se bat karte hai per sirf english or jyada sikhne k liye mere fb a/c unhone banaya per me use nahi karti wo hi use karte the or 2 year ke baad unhone block kar diya ..
Dosto Ahemad or me ekdusre se bohot pyar karte hai me unke mazhab ko apna ke humesha unke sath rahena chahti hu q ki humne humare life k bohot sare dream dekhe he jo sath me pura karna chahte hai per Ahemad muze hindu hi accept karna chahte hai per ye possible nai hai or me unke mazhab ko apna ke sath jeena chahti hun dosto humare pyar ke 7 year chal raha hai aap duaa kijiye ki hum humesha sath rahe or koi juda kar na paye or hum kabhi juda na ho paye ekdusre se..frnds dosto ki duaa ma bohot taqat hoti hai jo qabool hoti hai aap duaa kijiye ki humare riste ko qabool kare waise mere ghar wale nai manege per me chahti hun ki unke ghar wale humare riste ko accept kare dil se waise unke ghar me sub jante hai sirf unki mum or papa..mum jante hai per me Ahemad ki best frnd hun ..dosto plz duaa kijiye ki humare pyar ko sub accept kare ager sub nahi toa hum dono k ghar walo me se kisi ek k ghar me hume accept kare..i really heartly thankful too u..u r read ma life n i reqvast to all pray for oue love plz..
Allah hafiz
take care

A reply from Mukesh Ambani (Reliance Group) to a pretty girl seeking a rich husband

A young and pretty lady posted this on a popular forum:

Title: What should I do to marry a rich guy?

I’m going to be honest of what I’m going to say here.

I’m 25 this year. I’m very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with 100 crore annual salary or above.

You might say that I’m greedy, but an annual salary 2 crore is considered only as middle class now days..

My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of 100 crore annual salary? Are you all married?

I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you?

Among those I’ve dated, the richest is 50 crore annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit.

If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden(?), 50 crore annual income is not enough.

I’m here humbly to ask a few questions:

1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)

2) Which age group should I target?

3) Why most wives of the riches are only average-looking? I’ve met a few girls who don’t have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys.

4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pooja i Chohan.

A philosophical reply from Mukesh Ambani- 

Dear Ms. Pooja,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyse your situation as a professional investor.

My annual income is more than 100 crore, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I’m not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain.

Put the details aside, what you’re trying to do is an exchange of “beauty” and “money” : Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square.

However, there’s a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can’t be prettier year after year.

Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It’s not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worse 10 years later.

By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a “trading position”.

If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term – same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or “leased”.

Anyone with over 100 crore annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with 100 crore annual income.This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps.

signed,

Mukesh