For Westerners, you will have a different gameplay when pursuing a Filipina woman. Filipinas are very conservative especially when it comes to dating and courting. Most of the time, they play coy and hard to get. These women are constantly being reminded to practice modesty and restraint. They are not the type of girls who will easily go with your in your apartment. In fact, it might take you weeks to months to convince her to spend alone time with you.
In most cases, if your pursue a Filipina women, she will likely take her best friend on your first date. It’s her way of securing herself. She thinks that by tagging someone along with her, she is safer. So, how can you win Filipina girls? Check out the list below:
Be friendly -Filipinas are naturally shy but they are friendly and very approachable. Give one a smile and start a conversation. They are very welcoming and trusting. You will be surprised at how easy it is to make friends with them.
Give presents – Anyone love gifts. Presents can soften anyone’s heart and you can use this to ask forgiveness or pursue someone. When courting a Filipina woman giving her flowers, chocolates and cards will be a good and efficient way in letting her know of your interest to her. You can bring flowers on your first date or maybe send them ahead. This gesture will be viewed favorably.
Serenade her – In the Philippines, there is this gesture called “harana.” This is the traditional courtship in the Philippines were a man is accompanied by his close friends serenade the woman underneath her window at night. Harana is successful when the woman invites the guy and his company inside for a refreshment or when the lady sing along with the man.
Don’t be too touchy – Women from the Philippines are very conservative. While they are open to going out with you with a chaperone, they are not comfortable with being touchy, especially during courting even in the early stages of relationship. Filipina women are very modest especially when it comes to public display of affection (PDA). By being too touchy she might misinterpret it as sexual advances and keep her distance from you. However, you will know and feel it if she is also into you.
Never insult her family and religion – Filipinos are very close to their families and they are very religious. Majority of them are Catholics and most are devoted to their religion. It is a big No-No to speak ill of their religion and family. These two factors are very important for them.
Be patient – You need to be patient when you pursue a woman from the Philippines because as mentioned they are not easy to get. They can play hard to get and it will take time before you will hear her sweet yes. These girls are looking for a spouse and not a fling. They want a lifetime partner and not a one night fun.
Dating a Filipina woman would be a different experience for men from the West because these girls are very reserved and modest. However, they are also the type who makes a good spouse and reliable partner. These women are a gem. They will make every home a perfect place to stay and every family a good training ground for responsible citizens.
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